Due to the fact that there is no ESL in School Elementary School, Mrs. Ma’am had to communicate in ways that demonstrated sensitivity and responsiveness to socio-cultural and linguistic differences. In the beginning of the year a few students came to Mrs. Ma’am not speaking a word of English. Mrs. Ma’am could have easily sent these students to another school or another classroom, but she instead took in the challenge. She did not have to be sensitive to the fact that they were young children just looking to learn. They did not know what was going on in this world that spoke a different language. Mrs. Ma’am took them in and in the end taught them how to speak English. One of the students, Moe, came from Iraq. He left there when he was three years old. He came to the United States not speaking a word of English. His parents spoke no English either. When it was time for Moe to go to school many schools that did not have an ESL program rejected him. The district he moved to rejected him. Finally he came to School Elementary and Mrs. Ma’am was happy to take him in. She knew it was not going to be easy, but she wanted Moe to have a place where he can call his own. Now Moe is speaking English fluently and he is one of the top students in the classroom. All he needed was someone to have a heart for him and give him a chance. Mrs. Ma’am did that.
Something that I faced in class was one day I was working with a group of students. They had to draw pictures of something they do during the day time. One little boy drew a picture of him playing catch with his dad. When he presented his drawing to the group, I made a rookie mistake. I asked how many other students play or have played catch with their dad. One little boy looked down and when I asked what was wrong he answer, “I don’t have a daddy.” Right after he said that another student chimed in and said, “How can you not have a daddy?” I wanted to hit myself. I was not thinking about the fact that not everyone has both parents. I was not sensitive to the fact that everyone is not like I am. Not everyone is living the same life that I live. I am just so use to having both parents that I forgot others. As a teacher it is crucial to always think about what you say and in what setting you say it in. In my case I had to give the group a mini lesson on how not everyone has both parents. They had so many questions for me. In a way it actually turned out to be a good thing because now these students understand the differences in some families. The students did not make fun of the student for not having a dad. They ended up talking about things they do not have. It was actually a good lesson for them to learn.
Allan Johnson tells us that we need to think of more than just ourselves. When we think of just ourselves it leads to judging and misconceptions. I was not thinking about that student when I asked everyone if they played catch with their dad. I never stopped to think that everyone is not living the same life. Some kids only have a mom or a dad or live with grandparents. It does not matter who they live with. We all need to be sensitive to the fact that someone might have a single parent. As teachers we need to embrace all students of all backgrounds and not allow for judgment or biased opinions to settle in.